
Above photo: 3days old! 1st day home!
Not so good @ blogging! It's been awhile huh!? Well, lets get up to date then, Last I posted I was about 6 months along. Since then I had hard days, weak days, and good days. Now I have my baby girl and she is 4 weeks 1 day old! already.
She arrived 10-13-09 @ 3:30 pm! She came at 36 weeks 4 days. Labor was INSANE; Worst pain I have felt ever in my life!
Baby girl weighed 6lbs 5oz, 19 1/2 inches long. A beautiful dark complexion like her daddy and pretty much just looks like her daddy! She is beautiful :)
WHEN IT ALL STARTED - 10-12-09 (funny I posted on facebook that day, "25 days till my due date") little did I know it would all start that night.
About 9pm, my stomach hurt, almost just like I exercised too hard and my abs were pissed! Then I thought maybe I had gas. Last thing on my mind is that it was anything to due with the baby. It only got worse, but was constant. Called the doc and he said, could be slow contractions and not to worry, just come in if they start getting strong and close together. Well it was constant, so how was I to know how close together they were or even if I was having contractions. About 11pm, I was running a fever, called again,
Doc: Take a tylenol and rest.
I did and tried to rest, only thing that passed was the fever, until later!
Got up at 2am and was seriously sick of it, woke up Kev and said we need to go in. The ER was actually on top of it, they must only care about pregnant women in possible labor! LOL
- Anyway, Right up to L&D. Indeed I was having contractions, and another fever of 101.5. Got checked for UTI to see if that was the case, Negative. Maybe the flu? Nope.
Doc diagnosed it as "infections of the uterus" (forgot the medical term)
Had to be induced, only cure for the infection is birth.
Induction started at 6:46 AM. I was 2CM.
By 8AM he broke my water, I was 4CM.
Contractions are killing me at this point, I wouldn't have made it through without Kevin. I asked for an epidural and they said I couldn't because my platelets were low. WTF?!! They said we can check your blood again in 4 hours to see. humdiddly do, they took 5 hours!! and finally by hour 6 I got the epidural! By that point I was 7CM dilated 100 effaced. I may as well finished out the labor without it. Glad i didn't though! Seemed as if only 1 hour i was able to rest, if that, and it was time to push!
I was only pushing for 40 minutes! Felt like 10 to me. and here she be. I could not believe it. How amazing is childbirth?!
Now to add a funny part of it all; While getting the epidural, holding on to the nurse, my water really comes out and wowy the nurse got soaked! Once she took a step back it looked as if she pissed herself! It was embarrassing but funny. Kevin came back in the room and all I could do was give him a thumbs up! I felt A-mazing after the epidural!
Waited a whole 5 hours to see my baby after she was born :( I was very upset about that. I kept calling the nursery every 2 hours to see when I was gonna see her...they kinda played a run around on that. but I guess I understand somewhat, precautions I guess!! I only got to hold her for literallly 1 minute! Kevin got to walk her to the nursery tho, so that was nice.
Only needed 2 stitches, but had to have an IV for the whole labor plus the 2 day stay at the hospital! Wasn't fun. especially since they put it in the crease of my arm where it bends! I mean c'mon, I need to hold a baby and nurse her! I had them change it after the 1st night. They blew 2 veins! Ouch!
Day 1 after birth: I finally could really walk myself to the bathroom with no worry, besides pissing myself before making it becuase I had to wheel around a damn IV!
My ribs were really hurting from pushing! Every 3 hours the nurse would come push on my uterus! UGH. Didn't feel too good. I let the nursery have her the whole first night and half of the 2nd night! may as well take advantage while you can and rest up. considering I went thru 35 hours of no sleep and giving birth! I'd say we needed rest!
Day 2: I felt so much better, ribs still sore, kinda hard to breathe, and pretty dang difficult to sit, and ofcourse using the bathroom was a chore all in its own, STUNG like hell!!
We waited forever to be able to leave the hospital! Finally got to leave at 2pm. :)
- should have seen Kevin and I putting Jordynn's going home out fit on. Oh it was hilarious, I about peed all over! I am now pro at it. But that first day, nervous and excited! and putting her in the car seat, I didn't want to hurt her. Pro at that now too!
Since she's been home: Sleep has been crazy, but most days I feel alright, I'm able to exercise atleast every other day, depending on my rest! I pick sleep over exercise! (its more important) -- The first week and a half she would only sleep good if she was with us. Finally, I learned a trick, that should have been obvious! My friend Dawn had her for a couple hours one day while I went to the doc and had her sleeping in her bassinet the whole time!! now what the hell?! Well she had her swaddled differently than I was doing it. arms at her side and blanket pretty dang tight. Once we started doing that, she has been sleeping in her bassinet every night, for 3-5 hours at a time! Pretty dang awesome!
I ended up getting a crazy UTI within the 1st week after birth. Migraine from hell and achey bones! Glad its gone! -- I healed rather quickly, wasn't bleeding more than 2 weeks. Still a bit uncomfortable to sit because of stitches. Breast fed very well the first few weeks and then I started a pill that couldn't nurse with, plus I couldn't get her to latch properly and my nipples killed!! Since I have been off the pills I have been working on nursing again, she's not really takin to it. I will try a bit longer, and if not, it doesn't make me a bad mother. atleast I did it for 3 weeks even through the pain! I know its best, and its best if they get it thru 3 or more months. But its not working for me, and i can't get through the pain. I will buy a pump and pump as much as I can to feed her breast milk thru bottles! that way she is still getting it. Maybe I will produce plenty to last 3 months!!
She is healthy as ever. Never needed NICU and didn't get jaundus (spelling?) -- so thankful for my husband and getting me through it all! He talked me thru it and it helped SO much. Thankful my Mom and Sister could make it out so quickly! Mom baked delicious friendship bread, Amber did my laundry! it was awesome! :))
- Jordynn makes the funniest noises! she hehehe's like a horse, but add a baby grunt at the beginning. I laugh every time :)) So cute. -
I can't see my life without her! (baby girl below at 2 weeks old)







